Repeating years later..

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                                                 Family and Love... 

  They say don't let society push you to get married at a certain age or have kids at a specific age. But there are some girls that when they grow up they think about marriage and kids. They decide that they want to be married before 30 or have kids before they are 25. 

For me I have thought about marriage and kids when I was growing up. There were moments that I would tell my parents that I don't want kids or that I will never get married. But at this point I'm just going with what is supposed to happen. Would it be nice to get married at some point? Yes, but with someone that can deal with my moods and how at times I just want to be left alone.Would I like to be in love? Absolutely but it will happen when the timing is right. 

At this point in my life I barely have any friends. I only have like 2-3 friends that I speak to and its not everyday. I have made friends at my current job but some have moved on to another and we barely speak. We send a text or 2 depending. From my old job I don't even speak or text anybody and I'm fine with that.

Everyone is busy with their own lives. Sometimes you think about someone you haven't spoken to or seen in a while. Then you get texts from people you don't even want to respond to and you consider changing your number. I have had my phone number for about 10 years but before that I had like 3 or 4 different numbers. I have numbers of people I don't even speak to anymore which means its time to clean out the phone. 

Things change as time goes by

I hate those friends that disappear and then reappear a few months later or a year later. That is annoying because just when you've accepted that they didn't want to speak to you then they wanna come and talk about how they was going through a dark time or needed space from everything and everyone. Like try therapy or something to better handle that. 

Sometimes I care a lot about my friends and I try to always be there. But sometimes you can't even help because they don't even want to try and help themselves and just keep going into a dark place. One day they will realize what they should have done and that they should have listened to you about the advice you was giving. Some people just are so stubborn and hard headed that they won't learn until they get into a deeper mess. You can only do so much and for them that isn't even good enough. 

People have to go through stuff in order to learn and become better. You can talk about your mistakes so someone else doesn't do it and they can be better. Not many people are willing to help and guide you. Everyone sees the next person as a competitor instead of a team mate. Not everything is a competition and that is where everyone messes up because they are focused on the wrong things. 💅💟
 
 
Location: Orlando, FL, USA

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